It’s true that working in the adult industry, you will come
across far too many misogynists, but you will also find men who truly respect
women and to me that is a big deal.
There have been many times out in the ‘real world’ (which we
are to believe is less hostile to women than the microcosm of strip clubs) where
I’ve been threatened or disrespected by a man and NO ONE has done anything. I’ve
also worked in clubs where management not only let the customers do whatever they
wanted, but also encouraged the girls to do whatever the customer wanted,
namely extras. This is why I’m so grateful to work where I do now.
On Sunday I was doing a private dance for a customer who
kept touching. The floor guy came back twice to tell him he needed to stop.
Since he’d been forced to keep his hands at his side, the customer decided to
use his FACE to massage my ass. Within two seconds the floor guy was back there,
making him pay me and kicking him out.
“I still can’t believe he did that,” the floor guy said
later as he was walking me out to my car.
I could, because I’ve seen guys do worse.
What’s harder for me to believe is that there are men out there
who care about how females are treated, but luckily, I’m learning that those
men do exist.
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